B4S, yeah she vented, she got a lot out, she bawled her eyes out, I almost did too. She was listened to, she was understood. She let me know how painful it was to not be able to share MY emotions with me - that's who she is, she likes to share, my keeping my emotions bottled up drained her emotional tank like nothing else. Once there was nothing in the tank, and the ther stuff started seeming worse and worse and bam! D time.
That is what she's been missing. She needs the quality conversation. THAT'S why she's sticking around for 3 hours, we did the stupid debt stuff in 10 minutes, she could have left. But we talked, it was meaningful to her (and me, oh my gosh!!!) and it was what she needed. I almost think her tank got a drop or two.
I don't know if I'm smooth, but at least she's thinking. That's a good thing. She gave the indication that she'd call, even though she said she'd "think about it" but I'm not expecting anything, all that did was drive me nuts after the last meeting.
Oh, and Amy, she was dressed SO HOT! (low cut blouse, one of my favorite necklaces that she wears, tight capri pants, high heels that she know I love, make-up and hair done just right, etc. Does that tell you anything???) I was dying to jump her, and I totally didn't. No Chihuahua
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
