My marriage is hopeless IV

[WAW in the OC]

ERC,

I just wanted to comment on the 6 month A. I too thought my W A w/ OM would end at 6 months. I estimate she started around November 06, I didn't find out till 4/07 and they seem to be going strong at month 8!! Not to discourage you, I'm sure my W's A will fizzle out since he's 22 and she's 38! Plus she is paying for everything! That should get old too, once she is responsible for it and not me.

It's good that you are communicating with your wife. Mine still has so much anger she can't even look at me. I really don't know why she's so mad. I just let it go and detached. Working on my my kids, myself and GAL. I am really looking forward to life after this he$$. Whether it is w/ her or w/out her, life will be easier when this is over.

I find that these sites helped me tremendously. I haven't seen a C in a month but I am feeling better than I have in years! Even before the bomb was dropped. Best of luck to you too.