MC, my W said/says the same damn thing. It is BS. If it wasn't for the OM you wouldn't be dealing with this BS. But at the sametime you would not have recieved this opportunity to findout who you really are and what you really want from your M. It sucks to be put through hell, but is a blessing in sorts since you can take the opportunity to really reflect and findout what you want and who you want to be - with or without your W.
