swashy, I always welcome your male's point of view. So you don't think this "sexy" will give him something to look forward to or just a nice "thought" while he is away?
I did tell him a few days prior to him leaving that like he had told me in the past whenever he was going away on business that he would take this time away to think about us & after recently finding out about him taking OW to his April "business trip" to the islands (honeymoon time?) that how can he possibly "think" when she was there w/ him?
I don't know if it was what i had wrote to him on Im the day before he left regarding I wanted to have a good last interaction w/ him b/c while he was away in the fall my father died & it makes one think like this (nice last interaction) when death has hit home like that. That nite I was not expecting him to stop by and spend a litle time w/ us,but he did & was in a good mood and all went well. So maybe that statement really made a difference?
Also, tell me if I did ok on our IM by writing I am sending you lots of xoxo. Its funny how a month ago when I finally signed the D papers he starts saying ILYs and calls me sweet pet names, but now he seems more confused and doesn't say it anymore.
