I apologize, Nicola -- I know you didn't mean it the way that my ears hear it. It's something I "get told" and it's not meant to be constructive, but dismissive. Anyway, it's been kind of a rough day and I should have kept quiet. I do appreciate the help all y'all give to this chick.
Apology accepted. I do understand, and I could have used gentler words myself.
Thank you.
Dang, Nic. You tangled with me last week. PON_dering yesterday.
It's something I "get told" and it's not meant to be constructive, but dismissive. Anyway, it's been kind of a rough day and I should have kept quiet. I do appreciate the help all y'all give to this chick. 
