Happy Anniversary...Today marks 6 months of this sitch for me. They say typically A last 6 months, well I am at that mark now and it does not look good for my M.
I had my girls last night and we crashed at my parents house. They are currently with my mom and dad. Wife is home alone(more on this later). Softball was fun even though we lost. Tonight I have a good friend of mine and his daughter coming to the house. Should be goodtimes for both my daughters and I. I also made plans for Saturday, golfing in the morning and hitting the beach for a pinic in the afternoon. Should be a goodtime.
My W called me this morning. I think maybe she was trying to pick a fight or was just having a pity party for herself. I did not let her rope me in when she her tone increased to a stern level. She asked about the girls and what their plans where today with my mom. Then she asked me again why I decided to go with a L and not a mediator. I told her no matter what I was hiring a L to look things over for me. I also told her she holds the key for going with a mediator. She hired a L and I needed to respond. She then started to have a pity party about the amount of time I am spending with our girls. She told me that rightnow that I am spending more time with them then she is...She is with them all day while I am at work...Doesn't make sense .. Anyways... She told me that I am making this out to be about me(ERC) and can't I see that she is trying to make this easier on the girls. I told her it is all about our girls and that I am going to make the most of my time with them for the rest of my life. She mentioned that it is hard for her to not see the girls on a daily basis and that she is has to come to grips with it. I told her that I am not OK with not seeing my girls daily and that I will make the most out of the time that I do have with them. I will probably never totally come to grips with it.
So that is a day in the life of ERC. Is her world crashing around her? Maybe... Is she still decieving herself? possibly.. Is the A still going strong? I don't know... Are all the people on this board people of intergrity and high morals? I would have to say YES...
