i completely understand ERC. we have to learn to just let go. its for our own good and the well being for the babies.i know its hard.
by listening to all of these great people i have learned there is nothing we cando to fix our other half. especially when they are so wrapped up in them selves.
like i said earlier, people like these really dont deserve our love. we are better than we think and we deserve people who truely want to love us. the faster we understand this the faster our lives will get better.this typr of true love we will recieve will allow us to return the love but show our babies what its like to be in a good healthy relationship. they will see the difference.