No, but he is going to. Told me to get a lawyer, everything has to be legal. Yipee. I can't even make my monthly bills now, how can I pay for a lawyer.

"everyone else does it and they don't have $ either" he tells me.

So not only am I doing something I don't want to do but somehow I have to come up with thousands of dollars to do it. I'd be on the street corner if I could but I'd have to pay them.

Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08