still going

[BeingMe]

Not much advice I can give right now (off to bed, since it's pretty later here), just support for the sitch you're going through. Your W sounds a tad bit too keen to be 'right'. A bit of a drama queen, if you don't mind my saying. And, not a bit empathetic to the pain you are going through with your knee.

Will come back tomorrow after giving your sitch a bit o' thought! Not that I'm the best DB'er on the planet, but I can see myself a little in your W, from a few years back (still blush at the thought of it), and maybe I can give you some insight.

Take care, and try not to get into any R discussions with her again - as they say here, it's a cheeseless tunnel.