I have done a great job detaching and going "lovingly" dark,
For all you guys struggling to detach from your W's, I would suggest giving it a real go, as I have found it easier and easier the longer I go. And I have found that I am getting more sleep and my PMA has remained on course.
Also, my sitch that was going a million miles an hour just two weeks ago, has slowed down considerably. Possibly the calm before the storm, or turning a corner, who knows?
I cannot control her, but I can manage her.
Great observations. I'm with you on this, even if we don't like the detachment, the darkness, at some point it seems to become the only option. I'm five days into my darkness, and while I hate it, at least the drama has screeched to a stop. And those of you familiar with my sitch know the drama was in overdrive. So yeah, I wonder as well if it is the calm before the storm or turning the corner. Only time will tell.
Remember, you cannot do anything to improve the situation right now, but there's a whole lot you can do to make it worse. Go dark, stay dark.
Me: 39 WAW: 40 S10, D7, S6 Bomb #1 - 12-24-06: Move out (ILYBNILWY - admitted '05 PA) Move back: 3-2-07 (W: I still want to be married to you) Bomb # 2 - 4-11-07: (W: Can't do this - never loved you) Move out again: 4-29-07 Dark: 6-8-07
