Thanks for your response. Don't think I will welcome her back with open arms. If she wanted to come back, yes I would be willing to try again, but under rules. And if at any point, I don't feel comfy with things, I will not go on. It is my opinion, and mine alone, that when I got married, it was a committment. Something that I will always honor. I owe it to myself to try but only if she is willing to try again 100%. Not like we "tried before".
As an update.....called tonight. She seemed in a good mood. Very short conversation.
Me: Hello. Her: Hey whats up? Me: Not much, I just was calling to see if you wanted to go to dinner and see that movie on Saturday night? Her: (Laughlin) Let me think about it.....I actually just got out of the tub and am soaking wet. Me: (pause to think of something clever but thinking completely sexual while she is laughing) Well then......why don't you dry off and give me a call tomorrow. Her: That sounds great! Thanks. Sorry for not being able to chat. Me: Not your fault that I called at a bad time....alright, will talk with you tomorrow. Her: (Giggling). Sounds good.
So, bad timing is now my middle name. She sounded very very suprised that I called to ask her out but I think in a good way. We shall see.
CIAZ M 7/97 S 5/05 D 8/06 Both 33 years old No kids
