Thank you for all the kinds words...We were married 12. S(11), d (9). I do think a lot of this has to do w/the fact that I was extremely successful and he was not. Several failed businesses, not the greatest career etc. He blames me for his lack of success. Funny thing is I never cared what he did as a career as long as he did his best at it. I am a very driven person but fun loving at the same time. We had some issues last summer-he was partying A LOT but things seemed to come around until he left in Jan. Floors me that he found a relationship so quickly-not being mean but he has really let himself go. What really tickes me off is the entire time we were seperated he kept making forward statements-that is until I found out about the girl. Who is 37 and never been married. He says he likes her a lot and thinks it's serious. I did flip out at him about 6 weeks ago when I found out about her-lost my temper and punched. SO not me... I feel as if he was trying to have his cake and eat it too. He has only lived with her a week and I was really hoping he would get his own apartment so he could have the kids part time. I have had them 95% of the time since he left. I try to make sense of it and I can't...annoys me to no end.
W-43 H-42 S-11 D-9 (Who pretended to be sick the other so she wouldn't see him.) M-12
