To quote the famous Julie who is quoting a famous Julia

"I say who. I say when. I say who."

;\)

My counselor also warned me today not to be a "ball buster." Ouch!

Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius

Me: 32 XH: 33
M: 8 years
Affair discovered: 06/2006
rediscovered: 11/2006
Separation: 04/2007
Divorced: 10/09/07