Sashaying thru Seperation IV

[mcojh]

Frank-I used the wrong word. I meant pursued. I type too fast for my thick brain to keep up. The last few days I had a hard time not pursuing and that is what I meant. I am trying to not play her games, but when I am weak, I get sucked in.

[frank_D]

I am trying to not play her games, but when I am weak, I get sucked in.

Then be strong instead of weak! (DUH!)

[mcojh]

Thanks at least you didn't call me the P word like Theo

[frank_D]

Thanks at least you didn't call me the P word like Theo

Poophead

[mcojh]

I can honestly say that I have never been called a poophead before.

[SuperDad]

MC,
I got in a similar sitch about 2 months ago when W realized that all of her friends thought she was nuts for just giving up on the M without trying at all.

When her former best friend and next door neighbor finally lit into her, she called me 3 times at work and wanted to cry on my shoulder.

Don't try to understand this. As Frank says, she is totally confused and doesn't herself understand what she is doing!

SD

[mcojh]

An oddity from Tues night popped into my head. While talking, CW told me that our R problems have nothing to do with FOM. She has never thought clearer in her life.....WTF

[EmtnRllrCstr]

MC, my W said/says the same damn thing. It is BS. If it wasn't for the OM you wouldn't be dealing with this BS. But at the sametime you would not have recieved this opportunity to findout who you really are and what you really want from your M. It sucks to be put through hell, but is a blessing in sorts since you can take the opportunity to really reflect and findout what you want and who you want to be - with or without your W.

-ERC

[theoden]

MC,

I think you are a peep-pee head.

--Theoden

[mcojh]

I am freaking out a bit the last couple of days and I don't know what to do. Since my R talk with CW on Tues night, we have only talked Wed morning when she called to tell me that she was OK ( I asked her to call after her sobbing call) and Thurs morning she called looking for some eye drops for pink eye. Otherwise, the only contact has been an e-mail message reply to a phone message I sent her.

I am fighting urges to call and contact her. I don't know what to do....Is she waiting for me to contact her or do I wait it out???????