how many times exactly does someone call you after you open a bank account? the man i opened mine with a month ago has called me 3 times regarding just checking in to see if there is anything he could do for me and then trying to sell me other products and this last time he wanted to be sure I had his name and number to call him if i needed anything. last time i was at the bank, he walked across the bank to greet me and ask how i am. He is super hot. So, crazy me was thinking maybe this was some strange male routine. i am so out of practice, i am clueless. he he.
so not ready for any of that, but kind of nice to think maybe someone hot was checking out the sitch. the new and brave me knows that when I'm ready, I actually won't have a problem calling him and just asking him out, because it is just fun to get to know people, even if he wasn't calling because of that.
my therapist actually told me today that she thinks i should start dating. i thought that was weird. she said the marriage is dead and over since he wants a divorce and she wants me to move on and so maybe she is stating that to help me be nudged in that direction more quickly in case H comes nudging back to just keep me on hand but without wanting to work on it. which always seems possible since he doesn't really seem sure of much. she isn't saying i should be finding anyone, but she was stating that it wouldn't hurt for me to just start going out to lunches and dinners with men for fun. i thought that was a little strange but kind of cool that she thinks i'm ready for that, i guess.
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius
So, crazy me was thinking maybe this was some strange male routine. i am so out of practice, i am clueless. he he.