Originally Posted By: i'llsurvive
But thats the hard part, I still love her and always will, although it will never be the same after what she did. Even after she did the worst things she could ever possible do to hurt me. I think the WAS will almost never say they are sorry, but who knows. More than likely it would be excuse after excuse of why they left, why we were to blame etc. But then again, I can't imagine being in their shoes and what they must be going through or thinking.

Yes I agree, with you both, they expect our door to be open forever, yet they still send those flaming bags of crap our way constantly.


i'llsurvive,

That is a REALLY tough one. How do you handle that love for her? Do you put your nuts on the line again to perhaps have them chopped off? I honestly believe God can and does change people. However, you take the same risk in any relationship – any woman can always leave. Just because she is not your exW does not mean she cannot. The tough part is if you do NOT give it another chance, you may regret it for the rest of your life.

Now, for the crazy part; in my sitch, I firmly believe God is working on my exW. He has told me to continue working on myself – getting in even better shape, getting closer to Him, finishing my second BS and CPA. He has shown me over and over again I will have the opportunity to be with her in the future. What will I do if this comes to pass? If it happens, it happens. I will cross that bridge if/when I come to it. Anyway, in the meantime, I am moving on with my life.

RMG

Last edited by RMG; 06/14/07 02:00 AM.
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