ST yeah, I will need to word it carefully. I'm not getting back into a "M of 3" situation again in the long run. I like your idea of saying I feel it is unhealthy but I'm tolerating it for now if he's honest, something like that. If I do end up bringing it up.. because I like OT's idea of giving him some time to get there on his own.
OT - oh yeah, definitely, that "default wife/give up" part is by far THE most important part to me. I agree though, it's probably two conversations rather than forcing it all into one, and the PW one might be later. After thinking about it today you're right. I know I won't live in a "M of 3" where I'm the "easier option" FOREVER, but I am willing to right now and I have no idea when "forever" is just yet.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
