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RedHeadWife #1096450 06/13/07 10:31 PM
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CDM but make sure BB joins too.
BTDT, answer was No.

BB would rather stay home with her dogs.

Lou

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Mojo That way the order/disorder Karmic balance of the world will be maintained.
I was thinking, I don't get ny, so that means you don't get any. that is how I understood the marital version of the Karmic balance. I didn't know it worked any other way.

I know there is:
win-win
win-lose
lose-win
lose-lose

The lose-lose seems like the marital model of Karmic balance and how things work IRL. And I say that with a sort of smile, sarcastic as it may be, but with no malice.

Lou

OG_Lou #1096465 06/13/07 10:45 PM
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Know any good, affordable islands in Puget Sound for sale?


You and how many other thousands of people are looking for that?

When you get the community started, let me know, I want to be one of the first members okay?


Heywyre

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1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
Heywyre #1096485 06/13/07 10:58 PM
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When you get the community started, let me know, I want to be one of the first members okay?
It will be a while unless I start with a tent and camp on some public land. \:\(

I have to master the Jim Jones and the David Koresh type of charm first. Just kidding about those power hungry guys.

Leadership abilities are good but not that kind. \:o


Thanks for the encouragement, real or other wise. I like good humor.


Lou

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Tents and remote islands - sounds like my kind of fun.

Ok, so what flavour of koolaid are we going with? I know how to make slushies - does that count?


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OG_Lou #1096600 06/14/07 12:34 AM
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Lou, by the way I'm from WA and stuck down here in TX !! WAH!!!!!!!!


Me: 38
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Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
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Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10
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No kool-aid, too much sugar. dont want any ADHD symptons.

Change of plan on location. Just found a not so perfect place apartment complex in balmy North Dakota ???

I know how to make slushies - does that count?
Real fruit???? Yes that counts.

Lou

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I think about NOP's idea often but like some other self centered men with ethics, well some ethics and some chickened ness, keep trying the honey gets more flies than vinegar route.


The funny thing is once you're really no longer fused to somebody, it all seems like it should have been so simple but the results might still be the same. I think if I went back in time and found myself married to my 2bx again and kept doing the end of my marriage over and over again like in "Groundhog's Day" it would be like scenes that varied in every respect except that I would be stating a boundary or taking a long overdue action and my 2bx would be getting in a car and driving far away.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
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Cadesmom34 I just chose WA because HW said the area north of WA was a good place to live.

Yes WA is different than TX. I selected the eBay ND apartment as a joke because it gets really cold there. I wanted to scare away the weenies/tender foots.

But why the WAH!!!!!!!! I understand to most people there is no place like home. I have been in MT since 1969, in the same house since 1974. I like the physical country back in PA (my old home area) better than MT but I like the dryer air in MT. Also fewer people here, which translates into fewer cultural/social events.

Some trout streams and mountain camping sites within 100 miles but I don't fish or camp. How lame is that. It wouldn't take much for me to get into both with the right buddy or group.

Right now I am self-imposed, stuck in work, clean up, repairs around the mode. Lame again.

Anyone from TX to tell CDM34 about the good places in her neighborhood.

I saw some places in TX that looked like they would be good places to visit. I am certain some posters from that area found some good places to tour.

Lou

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Well, yeah, I'll look at it positively -- three little boys born in po-dunk TX who are beautiful and already are convinced they are cowboys \:\)

It can be pretty, but I just won't ever get used to the heat!!! The people are very different from what I'm used to as well, but that's doesn't mean it's a bad thing.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10
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