any updates yet? Have you talked with her or asked her out yet? Let us know!!
I think your last post is so important for all those just begining or struggling with their DBing efforts. Without changing yourself and moving on (without completely closing the door) the journey is so hard. Not to say that those things make it an easy journey or pain-free. But we have to realize that it is not up to us whether they come back or not (it is if we accept them back) and all we can hope to make better is oursleves.
