Yes my W's best friend does have an Aussie accent, and all my friends are smitten with her and want to include her in everything. No wonder she is enjoying her time and wanting to hang out with me more that W.
And yes, it seems my train has been delayed at the station, for how long I do not know.
She is very quiet when she does get home now, but I am sensing that she is testing me in regards to my GALing. She reneged on being able to look after DD on Sat night (I had a party to go to, heaps of women, possibly some inappropriate touching etc just kidding).
She left me a note, to say she had plans (along with Fri night), so she has reneged on sharing a night each.
But this morning, I let it go, and she sort of baulked before taking DD to school, thinking I was going to bring it up. No chance, been there done that and got a postcard
Its good to see your sitch has slowed down somewhat also. You have made the right decision to go somewhat dark. I still think it is so early for your W to even know what she wants right now. Give her the space and time to figure things out, while things are calm. So backing off completely and enjoying time with your family is a good step.
You need to be in a position that your W wants to come back for her own reasons. So when you get home, detach some more. Hard as it may be, you just have to let her go some more. Don't rush it.
I have bottled some of my own "home brew" MOJO. Let me know when u need some, it is fermenting as we speak.
All the best buddy.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
