Moon and others. This is tough on us all to find outselves at odds with Moon, or each other. I won't vote.
I will say some highly respected publications promote a tough love stand here. If the WAS doesn't truly intend or work to kick their habit, it is time to kick them to the curb. Wow that hurt to write and I am only referring to work by Dobson and others.
Ok, so some of us don't subscribe to Dobson. Other pieces laying the A out as an addiction that must be broken say the same, cold turkey and no games.
We all imagine the WAS waking up. We all see the LBS in a living hell. If Moon helps her pack he is not stopping his love, only showing her the door. It is up to her to decide some tough things for herself. Maybe she can't do that at home, or won't.
I recall Jack facing some hard moments and I know he understands. He is right to suggest moving with caution and to error with care. But in the end, Moon had to do what Moon has to do. Moon will of course also have to live with Moon in the end. This is not one to jump into too quick, but Moon does own the option.
Take care friend, consider sending her to the hotel a week, or a friend, or the nearest shelter of her choosing while you think about this. It may not be what you want in a week, regardless of your decision. She was trying to eat a big slice of cake on you and that IS TO BE EXPECTED. We know and read that this IS what they do in reconnection. Nothing says there should not be a price to pay.
