Corri Move HER into another bedroom. Lock, stock and barrel. Tell her that you will only live one more year in a SSM.
Then continue on being Lou. Kind, patient... GAL... let her figure it out. If she asks you for clarification, give it to her, kindly, gently... but be firm.
I actually tried that for a few weeks. I moved to the other room, minus the hardware,the time limit, and the GAL.
I did most of the kind, gentle, and patient, trouble was there always is some P/A stuff from both of us. : (
According to BB I have improved a lot but still need to get rid of my inventory, AND she still doesn’t have much interest in sex.
More work for me: GAL, neaterize the house, be firmer. Really??it is already firm! Oh, not that kind of firm??? I see.