That does sound like a good idea, but make sure BB joins too. Maybe a little bit of old-fashioned jealousy is what she needs !!

You get kind of *comfortable* w/ your spouse, but I can tell you that sparks (p*ssed off ones) definitely fly when you realize that someone else may find your spouse attractive, sexy, etc.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10