WOW, is all I can say. You are bad A$$! I'm sorry that she's doing what she's doing, but I'm so glad that you are having the strength to deal with it the way you are. I truly think she's going to end up groveling at your feet, but hopefully it won't be too late.
Thanks, but I think it's too late, I really do. But the "bad-a$$" thing might help me in my future relationships! I've lost 21 pounds, added muscle, took some of the gray out of my hair and grew a nice new goatee thru this. I'm lookin' good!!