Lou, I truly wish I could tell you. I just really don't know. I honestly don't know why exactly we get to where we do in our R's and how they get fixed or not. I know that I've done my very best to *fix* my M, but I don't have any assurances that that will even be enough for H in the long run. I'm sorry I don't have any answers for you. I tried to help w/ the other guys on that other thread to at least get some sort of insight into our thinking, but everyone is really different and even if the *reasons* we got to where we are are the same, getting back to *good* may not be the same for everybody.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10