YEAH! So I had to have the talk AGAIN with her. She went skating yesterday and had a bruise on her butt and I guess they wanted to see. At first she said H was ok with it and I tried not to wig out so I asked for more details. I don't even think he knew. The girls all went to the bathroom together......BTW - ages 7 and under with D being the oldest?! WTF
So now I have to have "THAT" talk with him.
She gets mad and wants to just drop the subject when I tell her it's NOT ok for people to see her body - NO ONE should be asking, etc. etc.
Oh God help me.
Okay hold on a minute here. These are little girls all 7 and under.
I think you were right to have the conversation with her again but I do not think is something you need ream H over.
P.S. The kid wouldn't get up today so I'm debating telling him if he's going to watch her on the nights I work (or babysit) that he needs to have her in bed by 8:30. If he can't do that, we can just do every other weekend.....
BTW - if ya'll want something to laugh at....I'll give you something.
I was walking out of work yesterday - on my way to job #2 - when I totally fell in the parking lot. You know how you start to fall and try to catch yourself? Well I couldn't catch myself and hit both knees HARD I have this lovely knee scrape like I'm 6 again instead of 29
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
I do not mean to add more stress to the sitch but does this post make it sound like he is completely over you....Surprised Jazz did not say anything about this.
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Now......last night H was ticked that I wasn't home when he thought I should be. He had come by and I wasn't home yet. Called my cell twice but I had left it in the truck so he was pertubed that I wasn't answering. Then he called the house, wanted to know how long I'd been home, was I home when he pulled into the drivwway, what time did I get off work, do I not have my phone on me anymore....and then said he was close to my house and he'd be home in a minute. He'd also said he didn't have his garage door opener or the keys to my house so she hadn't had a bath yet - (at 9:30 ) but that they went to a ballgame, had a chili dog and ice cream and he had talked to her about being good about getting her bath....
Just my 2 cents though.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
“Trust the Lord completely; don't ever trust yourself. In everything you do, put God first, and he will direct you and crown your efforts with success” Proverbs 3:5-6 (TLB). Today's Word from Joel and Victoria
We all face tough times that challenge everything we believe. And we often have the hardest time seeing God's hand when we're in difficult situations - because we just don't understand what He is doing. But the exhilarating thing is that God uses tough times to show us His favor and blessing. It may not feel comfortable at first, but seek God's face all the more when you're struggling. When you ask Him, He will give you everything you could possibly ever need to make it through the trying times. And He will give you special eyes to see Him through all of your hardships. Your human understanding will fall short, so just give God full control and watch the blessings flow.
A Prayer for Today
God, give me the eyes to see Your face in the midst of my troubles. Thank You for never leaving me and for giving me what I need to persevere through my roughest days. In Jesus' Name. Amen.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
I do not mean to add more stress to the sitch but does this post make it sound like he is completely over you....Surprised Jazz did not say anything about this.
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Now......last night H was ticked that I wasn't home when he thought I should be. He had come by and I wasn't home yet. Called my cell twice but I had left it in the truck so he was pertubed that I wasn't answering. Then he called the house, wanted to know how long I'd been home, was I home when he pulled into the drivwway, what time did I get off work, do I not have my phone on me anymore....and then said he was close to my house and he'd be home in a minute. He'd also said he didn't have his garage door opener or the keys to my house so she hadn't had a bath yet - (at 9:30 ) but that they went to a ballgame, had a chili dog and ice cream and he had talked to her about being good about getting her bath....
Just my 2 cents though.
I've been praying Ben. I do still think it's his hurt and pride that are taking over.
As for Jazz - it's way too early for him isn't it? err I mean
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
BTW - if ya'll want something to laugh at....I'll give you something.
I was walking out of work yesterday - on my way to job #2 - when I totally fell in the parking lot. You know how you start to fall and try to catch yourself? Well I couldn't catch myself and hit both knees HARD I have this lovely knee scrape like I'm 6 again instead of 29
HAAA!!
Well since you shared...and I DO SO love a good fall story, I reckon I will share, too.
Tuesday night at home I was at my desk and I got up out of my chair, tripped over a laundry basket and my toes got stuck between the little holes in the side of it so when I tried to save myself I basically just ended up slamming myself into my bedroom door. My son came out of his room with that "what the hell happened to you?" look and I didn't know whether to laugh or cry because my poor toes hurt so bad.
The kid damn near peed himself laughing so hard when I told him how it happened.
I've been praying Ben. I do still think it's his hurt and pride that are taking over.
It is. Also just remember just because you get a D it does not mean that all is lost. I know someone that is a very wise person that was on here that was D'ed and now they are back with their H. This is exactly why I told you to quit with all of the negatives because it is not over until you say it is.
He would not have been pissed off if he did not care about you still...It sounded almost like he was jealous.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
So I had to have the talk AGAIN with her. She went skating yesterday and had a bruise on her butt and I guess they wanted to see. At first she said H was ok with it and I tried not to wig out so I asked for more details. I don't even think he knew. The girls all went to the bathroom together......BTW - ages 7 and under with D being the oldest?! WTF
I have this lovely knee scrape like I'm 6 again instead of 29 