H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Now......last night H was ticked that I wasn't home when he thought I should be. He had come by and I wasn't home yet. Called my cell twice but I had left it in the truck so he was pertubed that I wasn't answering. Then he called the house, wanted to know how long I'd been home, was I home when he pulled into the drivwway, what time did I get off work, do I not have my phone on me anymore....and then said he was close to my house and he'd be home in a minute. He'd also said he didn't have his garage door opener or the keys to my house so she hadn't had a bath yet - (at 9:30 ) but that they went to a ballgame, had a chili dog and ice cream and he had talked to her about being good about getting her bath....
Yes - I caught the "be home in a minute".
I met him at the door. He walked her up, I had the door open enough for her to come in. He gave her a kiss and hug and told me bye.
Now - this morning ....... D said today that the two girls that are his room-mate's grand-daughters wanted to see her bottom and she showed them last night at the game so they'd shut up so NOW I get to talk with him about that....... OY VEY......
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
D said today that the two girls that are his room-mate's grand-daughters wanted to see her bottom and she showed them last night at the game so they'd shut up
YEAH! So I had to have the talk AGAIN with her. She went skating yesterday and had a bruise on her butt and I guess they wanted to see. At first she said H was ok with it and I tried not to wig out so I asked for more details. I don't even think he knew. The girls all went to the bathroom together......BTW - ages 7 and under with D being the oldest?! WTF
So now I have to have "THAT" talk with him.
She gets mad and wants to just drop the subject when I tell her it's NOT ok for people to see her body - NO ONE should be asking, etc. etc.
Oh God help me.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
OK on a totally un-related topic - ya'll remember MS girl. Well she's changed her profile......she was "happily engaged" etc. but now she has this as her topic line.......
"Well @$$hole...it's like this....I don't want to hear your sh*t!"
You think she's broken up with him and on the prowl? I know it doesn't matter but ewwwwwwwww.......I don't want HER to be D's step mom.
P.S. The kid wouldn't get up today so I'm debating telling him if he's going to watch her on the nights I work (or babysit) that he needs to have her in bed by 8:30. If he can't do that, we can just do every other weekend.....
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
) but that they went to a ballgame, had a chili dog and ice cream and he had talked to her about being good about getting her bath....