I am so sorry to hear this, it really seemed like you were getting somewhere with her. Just goes to show she really is stubborn. Stubborness is a trait I have suffered with myself in the past it makes you want to do ANYTHING to prove the other person isn't right. No matter what krap you bring on yourself in the process. So I would be careful of being too outright oppositional with her. My dad is a stubborn old bugger too, and the only way with him is to come alongside - so to speak - and gently nudge him round in the direction you want him to go.
Maybe it's too late for all that.
Keep praying Choc. Pray that she gets the very best she deserves in life. Something tells me the fog is stopping her from seeing what that is.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
