I agree with you, WII (and I know that taking the high road and doing the right thing is the best for us, from my own bitter experience). Also, shaming someone forces them to try and prove themselves right, and so that just holds them back from progressing forward. We all know when we have done wrong, and seldom need to be reminded, and we all have to choose our own right time to repent.
Well done, WII! Your children know that you will always be honourable, and you can't ask for much more than that.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim