I am doing pretty darn good today. After y'all did a little roughing up on me yesterday, which I really needed, I sat down and talked with a friend who went through a divorce about 18 months ago. He and I are fairly similar in a lot of ways and he gave me a lot of great insight. The best part is he knows my wife too so he's got that advantage over folks here.
Well what he helped me with last night is that, a) I have no decision making power over whether a divorce is in my future, my wife will decide if she wants a divorce, b) it's ok to do nothing right now as it pertains to saving my marriage, what she's saying with all of this is she needs space again, c) there are a lot of positives such as her saying "I'm open to reconciliation", d) a separation agreement is good for me too just make sure it's fair and equitable and lastly, I'm a good guy, God loves me and is with me AND her.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
