Don't worry about offending me, you didn't...and it's harder to do than that. As I said...we can ALL give you our opinions about your situation, many of us can see it more clearly than you can...because you are entrenched in it. In the end though, YOU are the one who has to live it...whether you continue to try, wait and re-evaluate, or end things and move on. "I" simply do not see a woman who is REALLY doing what it takes to fix the way she does things on a permanent basis. I see someone doing what she needs to "for now".
