Oldtimer... thanks. Since I have 0 control over 2 and 3 as H has repeatedly demonstrated, and I'm not willing to give an ultimatem right now (#2 - #4), I guess it's between 1 and 5. I don't particularly like THOSE choices either so will have to think about it more.

I want to believe if I can handle #1 for awhile and get back to basics, and our M starts to move in a more positive direction, then the contact will decrease. But can our M even move in that direction while the contact is still going on??

Just thinking aloud....

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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