(((KS))) I do care about you, KS, but caring doesn't always mean giving you what you want - it's about giving you what you need. Nicola
And sometimes what a person really REALLY needs is simply to be heard and offered compassion. Barking at someone to "get over it" when feelings are new and raw is a sucky way to treat people, imho. I realize this stage is part of your past, but it's a new one to her.
