Hi Dana,

First, I'm so sorry your H is doing this. It's a shame - that man is clearly giving up on the potential for something amazing with a truly special person, and all due to his own short-sightedness and selfishness.

Second, don't you doubt for one second that you did everything possible to make it work out. You are a fantastic example of how to do this DBing thing. Regardless of how your R ends up, you have done the right things, over and over, with strength, grace and dignity.

Finally, your list is terrific. What you came up with "off the top of your head" is more than most people learn about themselves in a lifetime. Bravo!


Thread #10
22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07
Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!