I have not thought of it that way. Thank you. I do know that I have to think that the anger is not at me (which he told me the other night). He is not staying in my room. He is staying in the spare room. I am not ready to share my bed with him. Maybe someday we can but not now.
I have heard that hurt and love thing before. I have to agree. That is something that i have to keep reminding myself of.
I know that the anger is not about me. The C also told me that I am not his only problem. I also think that this custody thing is a bandaid for happiness.
I actually cut him off of the phone today when he was angry.
I am going to live my life still.
Thank you for the thought about him moving back in. I will think about that. Mimi
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007