Choc, I was shocked at what happened, being a trusting guy myself, I was thinking you two were over the hump.
When I read AdviceNeeded's post and remember some of NOP's posts, this OM/OW stuff gets nasty.
I see you are doing what is necessary and respect you so much for being the detective and the person setting the boundaries.
Had it not been for this forum and observing what happens to M's on another forum, I would have done the same things you did a year ago, just let things slide.
Your situation is a tough one but I see a man acting more steely than I ever have. I am so glad you have NOP working with you on this.