Aha! Now this makes sense. But, I really don't want have a another child, I want an adult wife that can take care of her end of the mariage without me acting as enforcer of rules. My W is very responsible most all other areas EXCEPT for this one. She is wonderful with the finances and planning, and the kids, which is all I really care about (that and getting laid on a regular basis).

My ex fit your description to a T, except she was HD. Always pushing the limits, and I just got fed up and pulled the plug. I have a problem with running other's lives, it's a Type 7 thing I guess.

If this is what it takes to get our S life in the groove, maybe that's just the way it is but it sucks ass IMO.