Choc, I could be SO VERY WRONG, but, yes, I agree you HAVE to do what you have to do to protect yourself financially, but I still don't know that you are going to end up divorced. I still think she will come around. I just wanted to give you some encouragement in that aspect. Definitely protect, but don't think it's over yet (unless you want it to be).


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10