What do you suggest on the lying about PW? I think that he's doing it because of the conversation we had - he kept talking about her and I was really upset about it, he could tell and then asked if I wanted him to be honest. My reply was "Yes, but what I really want is for you not to have anything you're uncomfortable being honest about" (or something along those lines). That's when he started hiding it again. I think you're right about the guilt etc. but do I do anything about this? Or just kind of accept that it's the case and let it go?
Thank you SO much for the wording suggestion. I like it.
I know not to hold it over his head. I guess that's where I was confused. It would be dishonest to say it would be no big deal to me and I kind of thought that's what you meant. I understand what you meant now. I can say it and be maybe 90% sure I mean it... a small part of me thinks I'm just lying to myself, but I kinda feel like that's something I'd never be 100% clear on.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
