Hey andyv,
congrats on the continued PMA. What do you think was key in detaching from W, because that is the biggest problem I have. I guess I am afraid to "let go" because i feel (like many others i have read) it will give her license to do whatever she likes with OM (and I guess never come back). It is difficult to not be interested in what she is doing (I know I can't control her, but it still irks me a bit). Was the big thing for you just keeping busy with friends, or was it something that just clicked inside of you?


My Sitch
Me - 32
W - 33
S2,S4,S8,S9,S14 (yes, 5 boys)
OM - 60
EA - 02-2006
PA - 02-2006
Separated - 01/2007
Told me about EA/PA - 06/16/07