Hey AndyV, Glad you had a god time at the rugby game. I feel for you man with the W's being inconsiderate. Sometimes I feel like I'm her emotional crutch. I'm having a tough time staying detached after our Sunday. Last night I was so sad for some reason and I can't get out of this funk. When I picked up D she was nervous and anxious like she was hiding something. OM? Don't know. Anyway back to you. you're right, detach, detach, detach. Affairs run their course and eventually she is going to have to face what she has done. Just focus on DD and act as if you are getting on with your life. Sit back and watch the show that is her life mate, If your W is like mine it is going to be a thriller.