I love to read your advice they r always so insighful!! If u have a chance I am in newcommers. I understand about the respect thing! I kicked H out b/c I got tired of allthe cake eating. At first I took some people advice on keep giving into sex to win him back ,but then it was not going anywhere and I thought why should he leave Ow when he is getting it from the both of us. I knew something had to give.
A few times after he left he 'd come by & still try to have sex and a few times I was weak, but I have overcome it and even though w/ tears filled I would turn him down. His cousin's wife was here a few weekends ago & she noticed the difference &asked what did you do to him? He seems diff. respects you more 7 nuch nicer to you? I had not really noticed until she pointed it out.
