Quick question to the girls on here who were(are?) LD, but who have managed to overcome the problem: during the time that you weren't interested in sex with your Hs, were you actually QUESTIONING your relationship in any way? Or were you happy in the relationship but just not particularly bothered about sex?
I was not happy in the R when I was LD. I was in MC for 12 years off and on, so I certainly worked on ME and I worked on the M.
The constant badgering, the constant criticism, the lack of communication, and his willingness to put up with an M like ours... disgusted me.
