I have not read your entire thread,but I it was really starting to sink in to me just how really confused my H is this past weekend when we had a heart to heart (w/ time constriction). He reinterated how he has made a mess of things & it was up to him to fix it,but he was so confused right now. My H has soften up a little bit more now. It is true what they say time & patience is the key!!!
