IMOP I have to agree with OT here You need to GAL and act as if go back to the basics and give him the space he needs but set your boundries.
Funny this should be brought up as my H and I are piecing and I have been thinking myself, if I am starting to be to into the R and forgetting about what makes me happy. I need to think about this but i do know I need to keep (start again) doing things for me, to give my self the space i need to just breath. Funny I think I'll be a little mysterious myself tonight
I lurk on this forum but mainly im'e in the infidelity forum as I feel safe right now there not quite ready to move here yet to stay.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez