She is trying but it is not enough. Here is an example.
Last night while getting ready for bed she was undressing. I simply was admiring her body from 20 foot away (I probably had a funny looking grin on my face) and her comment was "Oh no, get that thought out of your head..I am tired...she laughed".
That was a perfectly normal comment from her in a normal-loving relationship but in ours it upset me but I did not show it. I was not going to put the move on her. I was admiring her body. The point is... that she NEVER is interested in me or intiated anything with me in 8+ months. She is open to having sex when I pressure her. Oh boy.... what do you call this kind os sex? sex-so-you-want-dump-me .... pity-sex ..... get-used-to-this-kind-of-sex-foreever.... lets-have-sex-while-I-sleep
Her idea of getting better is: Having sex while she lays there and closes her eyes. I want to point out that her past sex life with others was varied and exciting and that was by her account. Of course she told me this while our sex life was in it's infancy. (first 6 months)
I know that a lot of people on this forum are experiencing far worse problems than I. I hate whinning so much but it sure makes me feel better about this situatin.
I deserve better than what I have been getting! I would like honesty from her... Will she ever desire me.... etc...
I don't think she will come around. She misled me from the start.
