Mojo Well, if you become single someday, I think you should definitely look at some actuarial tables and weigh the likelihood of catching a deadly STD
I can imagine some "what if's" for myself, but part of why I posted some of my concerns, was about being slightly worried about what could possibly happen to you.
I see 3 Mojo's. 1. The hot young flirt from college, When the STD's, were readily curable. 2. The 20+ year married lady that worked diligently to keep her family together. 3. Now a single gal in a more medically risky world talking about what she used to do back when she was single.
I am just being an older/conservative brother type, who is a little concerned about what could happen to a good cyber friend.
I can even be concerned a little about your 2BX. Here is a web site just for him. Dating Millionaires. Maybe there is someone there for you?
If 2BX finds a $$ sponsor, maybe he would pay off his share of the debts. If you found a Hot Hank with $$, that might work too.
Of course, the members at the "Dating Millionaires" site could all or mostly be scammers.