Were you really being taught that MEN don't want sex, or that WOMEN don't want sex. This is where I struggle as to why women don't "GET IT". It is EVERYWHERE in the media that men basically want sex all the time. That men think about sex all the time. That women can CONTROL men with sex. The media CONSTANTLY tells us that there is not ENOUGH sex in marriage. On top of all this, when we are all dating, women USE sex to get their men. But suddenly after marriage, they actually BELIEVE that sex is not important? How on earth can this be true? It just does not add up.
That is why I asked the question about what attracts men to women. In order to save their marriages, women must know the correct anser to this, and then do something about it. Us guys are told to trust the relationship stuff to the women, but if they don't "GET IT" we are in deep trouble. And like some others have said, we can tell them until we are blue in the face, and they STILL don't "GET IT". My own wife STILL thinks it is about sex. She can not relate sex with real intimacy or emotion.