Sorry misunderstood the other hang ups she has but stand by the way she probably feels about losing her womb.
I know what you are saying and I do understand. She was 45 when she had the operation and we have 4 children (B,G,B,G) in various stages of high school and college so we certainly weren't going to have any more. It didn't keep her from tearing up when she saw a young lady pushing a newborn in a stroller though. I do understand (at least to the limits of my gender's ability to understand) but I stand by my contention that there is something else physically out of whack. Extreme breast tenderness for over 18 months straight should be checked out. Immediately before and after her surgery she was on a hysterectomy web forum and they have a section devoted to sexual issues from the surgery. She is not alone in this. The difference is that those women know something is wrong and want to do something about it. I simply don't know how to get through to her and I am slowly losing the will to keep trying. I am beginning to feel like Choc described himself 3 months ago. Of course, like Choc, deep down that really isn't who I am.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
