"she's the prom queen and I'm just the girl next door?"
The (1)prom queen is usually temporary. The (2)girl next door is usually the keeper. What is wrong with being (2)the girl next door?

That's how I feel now -- like I'm *just* the wife and mom of your children
So, what do you want to be, the temp (1)porn queen or (2)"THE" mom-bousehold executive-in charge of internal affairs, the hot wife.

You are not second best. The second position is the best.

You are not second best, you are just w/o your best friend, your H.

Lou